i need help with a problem

i think we've left topic a bit here but.
then again i've been feeling pretty good latly so i guess talking does help.

barty i don't beleive you so i'm holding the activaty award hostage.
 
what are we doing?
this has gone way off topic even though there isn't anything on topic i need to mention.
i have a question.
here it is.
do you think it's possable for me to learn to like myself as i like my friends and family?
or is it to late as i've hated and recented everything about my self for so long?
 
Sure you can start liking yourself. It's never too late.

I won't say much here and now because it's 2:30am. All I'll say is that it's easier to learn to like oneself if there are other people who like you, because they can point out why (see the "Fruits Basket" onigiri thing I mentioned earlier).
 
i know this going to seem realy sentimental but i just wanted to say thanks and this video just says how i feel about all the help i've received from everyone whos posted.
i know it's a love song but it just seems to fit this situation.
 
Have this one while you're at it.

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLN6Z9Ta7Ms"]YouTube - Dragon Ball Z - Goku & Vegeta [AMV Hell 3][/ame]
 
Yeah, I cracked up the first few times I saw it, and it's still amusing now. I have to say that watching AMV Hell 3 for the first time, and watching the first half dozen episodes of Yu-Gi-Oh! Abridged for the first time and in a row, are the only times I've actually genuinely fallen off my chair with laughter. They took me hours to recover enough to watch the rest of it.
 
yeah they are good but you should also try alternate reality dragonball z and dragonball z the abridged series there pretty cool as well.
 
Sorry! I've been gone for a week.....Anyway, all this love going around and I CAN'T get YouTube!!!!!! AUGH!!!! Okay, I'm fine now. I'll just play my own version of the fun and appreciative love song from Dragon Ball Z in my head and pray it doesn't come out sounding like Barney......
 
you can't get yuotube why not?
i thoguht i had problems but man that serious.
just so you know the songs in the videos are in order of being posted
jesse McCartney because you live
and a line from dolly partons i will always love you
 
My work blocks YouTube! Usually, I can bypass the filter, but this just outright Blocks it. "Not available at this time." It says. It's like they put in some kind of filter that kicks you out when you even attempt to go to YouTube.
 
That's a shame, I feel sorry not having a great site like youtube available:crying:.
 
H i i know this is an old post but ithink i may have a new very serious problem.
it started a few months back at work i thought i'd done a good job on the sunday night shift so i went hone quite content with myself.
but that wednesday my supervisor gave me a lot of hassle over my it and it wasn't good enough and with out thinking a took my work knife and slashed my left arm 5 times 3 quite large cuts and 2 little cuts when i got home i claimed i had an accident.
but it scared me and left me with some scars.
then i stopped but lately if been making lots of little mistakes after 6 years of doing the same thing i shouldn't be making these mistakes. so i decided to punish my self my errors by cutting my arms.
i know thats a problem in its self but i think i might actually be addiceted to self arm i'm on my own again for a fortnight my parents come back this sunday.
i washing the pots this evening and saw the carving picked it up and started cutting at my left arm.
then i put it away kneeled on the floor and started hitting myself because i'd cut myself. then i went back to washing and tried using a steak knife in the same place as the carving kinve because hadn't peirced the skin.
i also cut my self at on purpose because i'd checked a delivery wrong.
looks like 6 little cuts i think my blades getting blunt.
i'm not sure what to do?
thats why i came here.
because i'm sure if i told my parents they'd desert me for being stupid.
i'm sorry.
 
jinzo64 said:
H i i know this is an old post but ithink i may have a new very serious problem.
it started a few months back at work i thought i'd done a good job on the sunday night shift so i went hone quite content with myself.
but that wednesday my supervisor gave me a lot of hassle over my it and it wasn't good enough and with out thinking a took my work knife and slashed my left arm 5 times 3 quite large cuts and 2 little cuts when i got home i claimed i had an accident.
but it scared me and left me with some scars.
then i stopped but lately if been making lots of little mistakes after 6 years of doing the same thing i shouldn't be making these mistakes. so i decided to punish my self my errors by cutting my arms.
i know thats a problem in its self but i think i might actually be addiceted to self arm i'm on my own again for a fortnight my parents come back this sunday.
i washing the pots this evening and saw the carving picked it up and started cutting at my left arm.
then i put it away kneeled on the floor and started hitting myself because i'd cut myself. then i went back to washing and tried using a steak knife in the same place as the carving kinve because hadn't peirced the skin.
i also cut my self at on purpose because i'd checked a delivery wrong.
looks like 6 little cuts i think my blades getting blunt.
i'm not sure what to do?
thats why i came here.
because i'm sure if i told my parents they'd desert me for being stupid.
i'm sorry.
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jinzo, I don't know you personally off the forums, or your parents, but I find it highly unlikely they would desert you for any reason at all. Much less one this serious. If you're cutting yourself as you described, then there's reasons why. You have to get help from them, and they have to get help for you to find out why. You won't be able to figure this out on your own without some kind of guidance from the people closest to you.

If for some bizarre, obscure, otherworldly reason they can't help you at this time, then go see your family doctor, school councilor, minister/pastor, whatever lifelines you have and seek out the pros help on this. Don't depend on just the internet to work this out. Get help from people who know what they're doing and know how help you figure this out. Don't wait. And no, you're not stupid and you're not alone. There's reason for what you're doing. And there's ways to deal with it.

The most I can do is encourage you to talk to your parents, and maybe this link will help a little too, since it's the most I can do from my position. But yeah, you know you've got friends here.
 
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