EmeraldDragon said:
coughlazyanduninspiredcough. Damn flu. Still kicking my ass.
LOL. Let me know how uninspired that seems after 8 years of marriage

You'll be surprised how quickly the inspiration becomes "shoot, got her that. Got her that too. Yep, she has 10 of those" ...
On our FIRST Valentine's day, as mere boyfriend and girlfriend, here's what I did. Perhaps it's more up your alley:
- Bought her a collection of Charles Dickens novels (in one volume)
- Bought her a small print of a Mary Cassat painting at the National Art Museum in Washington, D.C.
- Went to see Gisele (a ballet) in Richmond, Virginia
- Treated her to a 5 course meal at some fancy pants restaurant in Richmond afterwards.
Better?
edit: After confirming this with my lovely wife, I seem to have forgotten that I also gave her a copy of "Return of the Jedi" on VHS. ROFL. In my defense, it's because she told me she'd never seen it

Oh, and some Godiva chocolates too. Man they remember everything, don't they? I don't even remember what I had for dinner last night.